Reimagining: becoming an ‘I’ through a ‘you’

In 2017, in a surprise TED talk watched by 3.5 million people, Pope Francis addressed the ways in which our futures are deeply connected and dependent on one another. ‘I become an I, through a you,’ the Pope declared. His words echoed the writings of the German philosopher Martin Buber, whose 1920s treatise I and Thou describes the way that we become human through our relationships with and care for each other and the natural world around us. Just as trees stand tall in their individual beauty by entwining their roots with one another, so we as individuals, communities and nations only fully reach our potential within ecosystems of care and support.

This idea that the work of caring for one another is core to our humanity and human wellbeing was well understood by our ancestors. In my own work and practice, I draw on Aristotle’s concept of eudaimonia. Often translated as ‘happiness’, Aristotle’s concept is closer to that of ‘flourishing’. Aristotle argued that we need support to grow and develop and we need a sense of meaning; of our place in the world. For Aristotle, this meaning comes through collective participation in the home, the market place and societies’ wider institutions. In other words, tending to one another and the wider infrastructure that shapes our world is what enables us to flourish.

In the West this understanding of human flourishing has gradually unravelled. Our implicit understanding of human thriving as a collective endeavour in which caring (and our need to draw on support) plays a central role, was replaced by a utilitarian model perhaps best characterised by that rapscallion homo economicus – the individual who realises himself through a ruthless quest to maximise individual material gain. Caring in this utilitarian model would be outsourced, placed elsewhere, out of sight. If we could find a way for others to take on this messy business, so this logic runs, then that is the route to wellbeing.

There were good reasons for this shift, not least the realisation that the work of care – everything we do to maintain, continue and repair our world, our bodies, our selves and our environment– was increasingly not shared, but was racialised and feminised. Falling on women within the household and again on women, and in particular women of colour, within institutionalised welfare systems. Care work, these women remind us, can be joyful and fulfilling. But it is often repetitive, tedious, oppressive and rarely valued either in monetary or any other form. A world in which caring is neither shared nor valued oppresses: it does not enable the carer or the cared for to flourish.

But today I think we see a hunger to reimagine these tensions and to think again. Growing numbers of us want to put care for each other and the environment before money. Attachment Economics, Restoration Economics, the Foundational Economy, the work of the Women’s Budget Group – all this thinking and more represents an enquiry into how we might reorder our economies. The intention is to heal the current split in consciousness whereby we are asked in myriad ways, explicit and implicit, to contribute to the economies of extraction in the hope that invisible others will do the work of repair and care, on which we all depend.

Today we face a binary world that falsely assumes work and care are mutually exclusive spheres. Millions of us live lives of acute stress as we try to manage this border war: the competing demands of caring for small children; friends who perhaps need some extra support; young adults whose minds and bodies are deemed not to ‘fit’, or for our beloved parents. Before the pandemic struck I was conducting workshops across Britain with people from all walks of life: nurses, carers, grave diggers, university professors, nuclear weapon makers and more. All cited this ‘juggle, juggle’ as the single biggest challenge in living good lives. Everyone wanted to rethink the linear working life in new ways that would allow work to be rewoven with time for connecting, learning and caring.

These demands are not new. We stand on the shoulders of decades of feminist scholarship, the activism of disability and carer movements and more recently environmentalists, who understand the ethical connections between care for ourselves and wider living webs. But might this moment – in which the forces of a technology revolution (which is disrupting our work); a looming environmental catastrophe (which must reorder what work counts); and the cruel effects of the pandemic (which have so brutally exposed the fault lines in our existing care systems) – offer us a real chance to reimagine and reorganise?

Work and care: a new relationship

I originally studied history and I have a deep interest in the relationship between technology revolutions and social change. The relationship is not linear: the social gains that have previously accompanied shifts in technology – better health, longer lives, better working conditions – have been hard won and are not irreversible. But the longer run trends are clear: new technology disrupts and creates opportunities for radical social change.

If you had told those who crowded into our cities in the last technology revolution – that of mass production – that they would gain guaranteed decent incomes, paid holiday and a 2-day weekend, you would have been roundly mocked. And yet it happened. I want to suggest that the weekend – that totemic gain of the early 20th century – should be echoed in this century, in a rethinking of the relationship between work and care. Care time should become as normal as the weekend.

Some perhaps – like their early 20th century counterparts – believe such a change sounds utopian. But the lessons from history and from modern-day experiments prove otherwise. Weaving care and work together enables higher productivity and greater life satisfaction. It might also enable us to repair the fragile ecosystems on which our human life ultimately depends.

Let me give you just two examples. The first, from the 1930s when Kellogg’s, the largest manufacturer of breakfast cereals in the world, started a radical experiment: 6-hour working days. Workers at Kellogg’s embraced the change – in the 1930s people assumed that technology would deliver such liberation as the norm, the economist John Maynard Keynes after all had recently written a treatise predicting the 15-hour week. What detailed economic and household studies of the Kellogg’s experience show are two things. Firstly, workers used their time in many different ways, but all recorded their increased health and happiness from having the time for ‘maintenance’; taking care of children, making things from culture to good meals, joining clubs and just passing time together. Secondly, Kellogg’s productivity and profitability rose even though workers were earning the same wages for less hours. Cared for and happy workers were better workers: output rose and industrial accidents fell dramatically.

Such evidence would not surprise modern-day experimenters such as Karen Mattison and Emma Stewart, the founders of TimeWise. Their consultancy is built on a simple premise: if you offer good, part-time, flexible work you will attract a talented, loyal and highly motivated workforce. It is not surprising that, particularly in the beginning, many TimeWise clients were new mothers seeking ways to balance the care of small children with the continuing love of their professions. TimeWise grew in the early years because employers realised they were attracting higher calibre candidates through offering predictable but flexible work: time to care. More recently the gender balance has evened out – after all, fathers also want to care as do older workers and many more. TimeWise are pioneers because they have shown over almost two decades that work and care can be reintegrated so that life and business is better.

The common thread running through the reorganisation of Kellogg’s, the innovations at TimeWise, the words of the Pope and the interventions of activists, is a recovery and reconceptualisation of what it is to be human and to flourish.

Our systems – social and economic – are designed around who we imagine humans to be. Today that imagined human is the solitary, calculating and insatiable homo economicus, already referred to. To create change we need to explicitly recognise that scholarship across the widest range of disciplines tells us that humans are not in fact wired in this rational, individualistic way. This human template no longer fits and must be consciously replaced. It is time to give homo economicus a good death and to replace him with sapiens integra. Sapiens integra works, cares, loves, plays and learns for pleasure. They become who they are in relationship to others, assuming, valuing and making visible whole, connected human beings with our unique aspects, blemishes, affects and defects. We grow, we compete and sometimes we suffer. Sapiens integra is the template around which we can design our new systems.

I am arguing that at a profound level improving wellbeing is not about the design of a great social care system that patches up the gaps where real life should be. It is about turning this thinking on its head. We must think first how to create the conditions for good lives: which means the ability to support and care for one another, across the life span. We can acknowledge that this work is messy, sometimes painful and that its pleasures and pains need to be shared. We must recognise that care is a continuum: we need every-day time that allows us each to contribute, and we need the expertise of professionals working within redesigned support systems. This redesign then does not start within the current system. It starts with this very different understanding of the role care plays within human and natural world systems. This in turn provides the very different principles that can guide and govern the creation of those new systems.

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